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As mentioned in Chapter 1, men significantly outnumber women here (and on most erotic sites), so our ladies can afford to be choosy with whom they trance. 


So if you've read the profile of your intended hypno partner, and worked out that, yes, your interests and hers are compatible, and yes, you've got something to offer that'll help you stand out from the crowd of other guys, then you're ready for the my next tip, which is "BE RESPECTFUL".


The lady you're hoping will trance with you may or may not be a subject, a hypnotist, a top or domme or mistress, a bottom or submissive or slave, hypno-curious, etc.  But I can promise you, fellas, that most important of all, she actually is a flesh and blood person with emotions and feelings like everyone else and who should be treated with basic human respect.


So be polite.  There's nothing wrong with a genuine compliment of course, but starting out with a crude reference to body parts or what you want to do to/with her or the like is going to go down here about as well as it would in any other social interaction.  Make the effort to engage her in genuine conversation.  Treat the lady as a lady, rather than just a source for you to get your hypno-jollies. 


Likewise, don't assume that just because the lady is a hypnotist, or a subject, that she's interested in being a hypnotist or subject for you.  The ratio of men to women here (and on other erotic sites) is such that she's probably bombarded with requests and is not just going to go for the first or next guy to message her.


A little bit of basic courtesy, politeness and being interested in her as a person will go a long way.


If you are a male in search of a female hypno partner, remember that, as with most erotic sites, men SIGNIFICANTLY outnumber women here.  This means that our ladies can afford to be choosy with whom they trance.


My tip for the guys today is that you need to make a good first impression.  When the lady of your desire is sifting through 10 or more messages, you'll need to stand out from the crowd if you want her attention.


I'd start with reading the lady's profile.  If she's clearly a subject only, she's not likely to be interested in wanting to trance you, no matter how desperate you come across.  Indeed, desperation is usually a big turn off.


Conversely, is she's solely a hypnotist, then she's unlikely to be interested in going into trance for you.  Or maybe she's only into other women, in which case you're out of luck, fellas.  Maybe she's specified age limits or something else.


So step number one, read the lady's profile and ask yourself: Do our interests align?  Are we likely to be compatible?  What do I have to offer that makes me better than being just another dude trying desperately to find a woman for a hypno quickie - unless her profile says she's all about quick hypno meetups


Next chapter: Be respectful 

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