Ask, ten or twenty different subjects, and you will likely get ten or twenty different answers. There are so many factors that contribute to what makes a good hypnotist - knowledge, application of the knowledge, but just knowledge alone won't necessarily make a hypnotist a good hypnotist.
Hypnosis is often described as a science and and art. Perhaps knowledge could be considered the science aspect, with the art could be described as the application. But, there are those that have great knowledge, but lack in the application, and those that are great in the application, but are limited on the knowledge. What makes one hypnotist better than another?
But is there more than the blending of Science and Art? What other factors are there? One that I like to think of is what I call the r-factor or the ability for a hypnotist to build rapport with their subject. Without the establishment of that r-factor, how effective will the art and science be? In essence, the better the r-factor, the more effective the art and science can be.
But is, (A)rt + (S)cience + r-factor enough? It certainly can be. But so many times we have heard that rapport has been broken and the subject/tist relationship is diminished (or terminated.
So how does one maintain rapport? Once rapport is established, how does one maintain it? Consistency, acting within established limits, maintaining the dynamic of the tist/sub relationship are some of the many factors, but it can essentially be distilled to character. Character is how you act, behave, and present yourself - even when you think that no one is looking. It is the sum these factors that we acquire over the course of a lifetime.
So character helps maintain rapport, rapport helps maintain an effective hypnotic relationship, with the art and science of hypnosis contribute to being an effective hypnotist
So what do you think? Is there more to it? What makes a good hypnotist to you? Is there some other factor that I've missed?
So there has been a lot of talk and despite my best efforts
I started getting sucked into the “what if” type of scenarios. So I want to
state my opinions here and let you guys know that these are only opinions.
What is happening to hypbook?:
I do not know, anything I do know is hearsay and I have not
confirmed it as true. I have had a lot of anxiety about this, I love hypbook, and
it was my online hypnotic home for a long time. I may be voicing some of my anxiety’s
about it in ways that could come across as what I actually think is happening,
and for that I am sorry. Truth is, as far as I know, it is there for now. That
is the extent of my knowledge.
IS the community splintering?:
When I first heard of hypwatch it was in a discussion
talking about that very thing, but that wasn’t the only place people were
asking about it. More than a few people seem to be coming to me to ask what is
up. It could be that I was close to a lot of admins for a while so I seem like
I might know things without being “one of them” I honestly am not sure. Here is
my opinion on the matter.
If we want the community to splinter, if we allow drama and discord
to rule our emotions and life, than yeah it is. But I do not think we want
that, and despite unavoidable drama (because let’s face it we are human
beings.) I think we all pretty much want things to keep going for the better. I
get that we felt like a family over there on hypbook, and I get that this feels
a lot like “I will take my ball and go home.” But I do not think that is what
it is.
We are a rapidly growing community, we have multiple needs,
and when sites like hypwatch pop up, run by mostly sane individuals, whom we
know want the community to grow, not wither….it’s a good thing.
We are expanding our garden and growing more fruits from our
labors. Life is not static, it is dynamic, and when things cease to change they
cease to live. Everything evolves eventually, and this is just another part of
that. Now we have one more site full of people, smart intelligent, ethical
people who are willing to discuss this. When the newbies join we can help them
learn about ethics, safety, consent, oh…what’s that other things……Hypnosis! The
more educated we are the better off we will be, and now people have one more
place to learn from and compare notes to.
These are my opinions. If you want your questions answered
ask the admins, not people who might know something. Get your answers from the
source and trust that, if they are not answering certain questions it is for
the better.
Well, hello there, little one.
You look so lost and confused. You look like you're looking for someone, something. What is it that you're searching so diligently for? What could be so important to you that you'd come all this way looking for it?
Oh. I see. You're trying to find your purpose. The place that you belong. You want to feel like you're home, cradled and taken care of.
Well, now. You've come to the right place, my little lost soul.
You see, I can help you. I can assist you in finding your true place in the world. I can guide you.
All you have to do is trust me.
Oh, yes, love, that is all it takes.
Trust. Oh, and the ability to pay attention to what truly matters.
It all begins with listening. Following my words to a tee. One might even call that "obedience." That may seem like a strong word, I suppose, but it's true nonetheless.
After all, I haven't given you a reason not to listen to me. I've only told you the truth. I've only reassured you in your time of need. So why would you stop listening now?
Of course you may sit. You look so tired. You've been searching so long; working so hard. So please, rest here on the ground. You can gaze at the beautiful blue sky. You can watch the clouds roll by. You could let your eyes close as you soak in the positivity of my words.
You can trust me. You can trust me to take care of you.
Maybe you want to move a little closer. You may. You may sit at my feet. You've felt so alone for so long now, but now I offer you my hand. I even allow you to feel the warmth of my touch. Sometimes that's all you need when you feel lonely and lost: a gentle touch to ground you.
My touch does feel good, doesn't it? It's nice to feel taken care of. It's nice to let someone show you love and affection for a short time. It feels nice to allow someone to guide you into a place of serenity and bliss.
You look so sleepy, and you look happy to allow that stress you were feeling to fade away now. I can see that tipsy smile sliding up from the corners of your mouth. I can see the light in your eyes as they gently glaze over. It feels good. It feels nice.
You can allow my touch to fill you with calmness and pleasure now. You're allowed.
See the smile forming on my face. I'm happy with the peace that you're experiencing now. I'm pleased with the way you're still listening and following my words. That's good. It makes me happy.
It makes you happy too- to make me happy. That's good as well.
It makes you feel good to listen. To follow. To obey.
That word. Obey. All the word "obey" means is to be led. It's a choice to adhere to my words. After all, you started this journey of your own discretion. You came looking.
And what was it that you were searching for again? Can you remember?
Or are you just enjoying this place of deep peace and pleasure as you kneel at my feet?
Maybe you want to stare into my eyes, and let go. To just allow your mind to fade away.
Doesn't that feel nice?
I can pat your head now, can't I? My touch feels nice, and it's nice to know that I'm happy with you. Maybe I'll pet you more, if you're very good.
It is nice to please and obey. It is good to follow and be led.
It is good to kneel at my feet and sink deep.
Maybe if you're very good, I'll allow you to do so again. If you're very good, I can keep you in this place of submission...peace...pleasure.
Be very good for me. You will, won't you?
As a gift to Rose cos she wanted me to post this log a while ago!
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As mentioned in Chapter 1, men significantly
outnumber women here (and on most erotic sites), so our ladies can
afford to be choosy with whom they trance.
So if you've read the profile of your intended
hypno partner, and worked out that, yes, your interests and hers are
compatible, and yes, you've got something to offer that'll help you
stand out from the crowd of other guys, then you're ready for the my
next tip, which is "BE RESPECTFUL".
The lady you're hoping will trance with you may or may not be a subject, a hypnotist, a top or domme or mistress, a bottom or submissive or slave, hypno-curious, etc. But I can promise you, fellas, that most important of all, she actually is a flesh and blood person with emotions and feelings like everyone else and who should be treated with basic human respect.
So be polite. There's nothing wrong with a
genuine compliment of course, but starting out with a crude reference to
body parts or what you want to do to/with her or the like is going to
go down here about as well as it would in any other social interaction.
Make the effort to engage her in genuine conversation. Treat the lady
as a lady, rather than just a source for you to get your hypno-jollies.
Likewise, don't assume that just because the lady is a hypnotist, or a subject, that she's interested in being a hypnotist or subject for you. The ratio of men to women here (and on other erotic sites) is such that she's probably bombarded with requests and is not just going to go for the first or next guy to message her.
A little bit of basic courtesy, politeness and being interested in her as a person will go a long way.
Dear Future Tist,
I'm here since August 2015 and looking for you. I have tranced with some of your colleagues and made some experiences. I discovered myself and how I work and what works for me.
Now it's time to share it with you, so you can contact me. I'm now in the mood to meet you.
1. I like to talk to you before starting with hypnosis. I like to get to know you and I like you to get to know me. Hypnosis is like sex - it's getting better, the better you know each other. Disagree? Then this letter is probably not for you ;-).
I want to have that feeling that you are a person for me, that I would really, really like in real life too. Even without trancing me. I would like to have the feeling that you feel the same about me. That you are interested in my person and not only in having hypno-fun with me.
2. I have to love your voice. I'm a very auditive person and I like to swim in your voice, be surrounded of it and let it filling me. That includes, that text hypnosis does not interest me at all.
3. I tried a few tist to see how they work for me and what techniques they use. I'm not really that much interested in quantity anymore, I want quality. I would like to work with you over a longer term. work on stuff and improve. I know I'm not the easiest subject, but if you like challenges instead of short time fun distractions, I might be the right one.
4. I don't like to be one of your "collected subjects". I don't need exclusivity, but I would like to be a important part in your "Tist-life". Its ok for me that you are trancing with others from time to time and I will do so as well. But I will always come back to you to bring the new experiences into our "relationship". You are not one of the tist who need a lot of subject to better your self-confidence. A subject is no need for your aplomb.
5. I don't mind if you try covert hypnosis. If I'm not in the mood to trance, I will not drop. So don't be pissed when it doesn't work :-P
6. I am somewhat submissive, when under. But I don't want you to tell me how to live my live, how to dress and what to do in my real life. And I'm not going to do everything you tell me to do, because I'm submissive. And don't try to tell me that I'm not really submissive when I act and talk like that - go and search for your real submissive and leave me alone. I like my partner to be playful and somewhat dominant. It can be fun to be told to do things I don't like and to realize that I'm not able to manipulate you. And I will try to, I'm a brat ;-). But a good Dom can differ between a No-maybe and a NO-nogo and will respect that.
I don't need to be punished for things I did wrong. Just tell me and we'll talk about it and I will change my behaviour. Punishment is only required for fun things or for teasing, not for changing behaviour. That doesn't work for me.
7. I want you to be firm, reliably, close and emotional reflected and matured. If there are any problems we will talk about it. And we will find a solution or try to understand the point of the other one. Its no option for me to don't talk to me about it, don't react to a Mail or message or to disappear for a longer time without telling me why.
8. I will feel good after trancing with you and I want you to feel good after trancing me. If we don't feel like that there is something wrong. If it can't be solved by reflecting it, we maybe may not really click.
9. You don't like "emotional games", too. Playing with feeling in the way of "emotional blackmail" and "withdrawal of affection". I don't like games like "I have to go soon" to make me do faster what you want me to do or sentences like "I will leave you, if you/ if you don't do …". If you want to end our sub/ tist relationship just tell me and be honest.
10. I hate cheating! I want our loved ones to know what we are doing here and with whom. If you are in a real life relationship in what kind ever, I like your loved once be fine with you trancing me and having fun and some kind of closeness.
11. I don't need 24/7. But if I have an urgent problem, I will be able to contact you in the next 24 hours. I would like us both to have time for each other not only once a week for an hour. I would be fine to see you 2-4x a week. I know that this is not possible every week. But we both should be willing to invest some time.
12. If you are more interested in your own fetishes and how I can help you with your sexual longings you should buy a porn instead of trancing with me. I will not undress in front of a cam and I will not do real life porn for you. If you are searching for that - go and search, its not my interest!
I can trance with you, but I only will go really deep with my future Tist, who will agree with that points and feels in the same way like I do. Maybe it seems to be arrogant for you what I am demanding. Maybe you are going to tell me that I'm never ever a submissive person. Maybe you are right with all of that. But cocksure you are not the Tist I'm searching for.
The man wanted to struggle, fight back, flee. He was so afraid, but his muscles and body wouldn't respond. He trusted this woman with his mind and body, but at this moment, he felt so helpless and completely out of control. His resistance was failing.
His every limb refused to respond to his mind's pleas to move. Her words
affected him in ways he couldn't explain nor begin to understand.
All he knew was that he was trapped...and there was a storm brewing in
his mind.
One part of his mind begged to be set free. He was afraid, so very afraid, of what this loss of control actually meant. He couldn't move, and he was trying so hard to fight against his mental bondage.
The other part of his mind was getting so turned on. It was becoming overwhelmed with the amount of arousal and helplessness it was experiencing. It was being flooded with endorphins, while the other part was quaking in fear.
The two parts of his mind were conflicted: One afraid of how turned on he was getting, the other getting more turned on by the growing terror. His Mistress had his consent to do just about anything she wanted, and he trusted her to play safely, but there was something about this time that made his heart drop. It felt more real, more... authentic. Maybe it was the primal look in her eyes. Perhaps it was the way they had jumped into play rather than working up to it like usual. Whatever it was... It was intense.
She sucked at his cock multiple times, stroked it, and then climbed on top. The man wanted to prove to himself that he was still in control. He could still fight. He didn't have to get more aroused. He didn't have to cum. He was strong. It was *his* body. He'd show her.
But within moments, moans were escaping the man's lips. He couldn't help it. There was nothing he could do to make her stop. And he enjoyed it. She was using him for her pleasure. He was loving every moment of the fear-enveloped scene.
"Fight me, slave. Show me how much you can fight." The man twitched at
her words. "You don't *have* to cum, do you? You're a strong man. You
can fight me, can't you?" She mocked him. Her voice was dripping with
ridicule.
The man couldn't stop it. He was getting harder by the second. It felt
strange and scary and so very hot, especially as he found his fight
faltering.
As he neared climax, he felt it.
His resistance, failing. His will, broken. He was not who he thought he once was. He was a slave. He was submissive. He was weak for his Mistress. And with that realization, he lost the battle.
He erupted into an orgasm more intense than he had ever experienced. His
mind floated on fantasies that he finally got to see come true. Things
he had dreamt about as a teenager had just happened to him for real.
And it was better than he could have ever imagined.
The man basked in ecstasy as the powerful, yet gentle women held and calmed him. He had pleased her.
That's all that he needed to know.
He was a good boy.
His purpose was fulfilled.
[Based on a real session with my live-in slave. We have negotiated scenes like this in the past and everything was done safely, consensually, and to both of our best interests. We have the best relationship, filled with love and fun.]
So with that premise, how much do you apply a context of hypnosis to objects, scenes, pictures, interactions, etc. that other non-hypnosis people would consider "mundane" (or having no hypnotic context). This could be as simple as thinking "what a great scene for some hypnotic play" or "I would just melt into trance if he/she looked at me like that" , or even just comeup with a story that has a hypnotic context to it.
We view everything through our thoughts, feelings and experiences - being on this site, how much do you add hypnosis into those views?
Please leave a comment on what your experiences have been.
Please enjoy the first file I'm publishing EVER!! It's a nice short intro that gives you a sample of my voice and primes you to get ready to become hypnotized!
Make sure you're comfortable before watching.
I'm looking forward to creating new files soon ~ opinions are appreciated
Vadoma the HypnoWitch
(CW hypnotic language, trance, post-hypnotic suggestion for mental comfort)
Read slowly, breathing deeply and slowly as you read.
Social distancing is the new black
but it gives you skin hunger
and it's getting to you
It's been a long day
You've been cooped up inside
Unable to go out and live your normal life
It's been a long week
a long month
Life has become unreal
nothing is normal anymore
What would it be like to have something to distract you, to occupy your mind?
What would it be like to go on a mental journey?
How would it be if you were able to relax deeply
and experience reading this as if you were on a vacation
What if you were to allow your attention
to focus to the point where you drift into a calm, peaceful state of mind
and the more you focus inside, the more comfortable you begin to feel
And because you're reading this and wondering what will come next
you can find that you drop your shoulders, which means that you're relaxing
In your mind, you're sitting in a luxuriously padded armchair
richly upholstered
one you can sink into and slow right down
and rest, supported.
breathing in peaceful relaxation, breathing out stress and tension
and already you're starting to feel a little more at ease
aren't you?
Very good
relaxing more and more with every word I speak
but easily able to keep your eyes on the screen and my words
I'm going to walk over to the light switch on the wall
it is one of those with a dial, a dimmable switch
I turn the dial and the light begins to dim
and the dimmer the light becomes the more you let go
i dim the light to just the right level
to create a relaxed atmosphere
I dial down any noise and distraction as you feel the peace
Your favorite sounds, music or birdsong or whatever is your favorite sound
comes to your ears
and you relax even more
I take something from my pocket
it's a cut gemstone on a chain
and you watch
as
you
imagine
my words
as a crystal
swinging
shaped
just
so
I start to swing this crystal in front of your eyes
it sparkles softly in the glow of the subdued lighting
and as I swing it from side to side, your eyes follow it
side to side
side to side
You can feel the sparkles reflect in your eyes
in the blissful silence of the swinging crystal
your eyes tracking the movement
and as you stare
listening to the sounds
the chair cushioning your body
your subconscious mind begins to open to me
open, receptive
And as you listen
I lull your conscious mind to sleep
and it steps back
and lets go
As you sink deeper into the softness of the chair
I can tell your subconscious mind to listen
and it does so willingly
your subconscious mind so receptive to me now
Now
What would it like if your mind was a whiteboard
And if I were to clean off
all that is there
so that you are blissful blank and clear
what would that be like?
Feel this, see this
as I take a whiteboard eraser and wipe down the board
bit by bit
and with each and every wipe you hear
you feel a warm wave of comfort
wash over you
as I erase all the thoughts and concerns away
until your mind is clean and blank
feel that clean blankness now
see the empty whiteboard
your mind so peaceful
you can rest in the blankness, anchored to my words
as you follow them
that's all you have to do
as you sit in the soft comfortable chair
in the soft lighting
listening to my soft words
And now I am going to write something
on the whiteboard of your mind
I am going to write
"Things will all work out"
look at these words written on your mind
listen to me speaking these words in your mind
feel these words sink into you
Remember this:
"Things will all work out"
absorb these words
allow them to soak into you
as you drift and listen to me
You know this:
"Things will all work out"
And you drift in this knowledge
In a moment I am going to bring you out of trance
but these words will remain in your mind
"Things will all work out"
Coming up on the count of 5,
bringing with you this feeling of peace
1
begining to stir
2
more and more aware
3
more alert, feeling so good
4
feeling energised and refreshed
5
wide awake, all the way up
up
Up
UP
Welcome back.
Now stretch, get up, and fetch yourself some water
And remember what I wrote on your mind
What was it again?
I thank Calamity for posting something similar. I did have this typed up yesterday, but was rereading it before posting it. I know it can be a delicate topic as of right now. It's important to know the intentions of something to resolve matters before they get out of hand.
Lately, I've been noticing a lot of concern and criticism in regards to a new erotic hypnosis site being started (specifically this one). A lot of people appear to be disapproving. Some people have said that it creates a splintering affect on the community. Others have this strange thought-process that there can only be a certain number of erotic hypnosis sites and they're all at a kind of war with each other. A lot of people seem to be very skeptical and overly-critical for a need of a new hypnosis site. I'm not really certain where those concerns come from.
First, let's get this out in the open. I am a moderator now of Hypwatch. The administrators of this site are, in fact, dear friends of mine. I'm not exactly unbiased in this matter, I suppose. I do, however, feel that this matter is important to be addressed as soon as possible, to hopefully put some of these negative feelings towards this site to rest early on.
Please note: these are my thoughts, feelings, and opinions on the topic. This is how I've seen the creation of this site since before it came into existence. There's been a need for a new site for a long while now, in my opinion, and it just so happens that these are the people who have created it.
“Where Everyone is Welcome.” This is the tagline that's posted nearly everywhere on Hypwatch. It's so, so important to me. There are erotic hypnosis sites out there that force you to full-out verify you are who you say you are through a sequence of tasks.
Others expect you to be a certain type of person (submissive, slave, hypnotist-only, etc). This is fine. I'm not saying there's anything against these types of websites. But this site, Hypwatch, is accepting of anyone who is eighteen years and over (which is a prerequisite for any possibly-adult-themed website) and anyone who is human (of course, I imagine I could make a case for the non-humans out there). Hypwatch is claiming to be ready and raring to let anyone in, and to keep the users safe still in the process.
Anonymity is important to a lot of people in this community. Jobs and lives hang in the balance and the forcing of people to reveal themselves is very frightening. I don't have this fear, but I know a lot of people who do.
As for splintering the community, I don't see any fear of that. People talk and converse about other sites all the times.It's not exactly appropriate etiquette, but recommendations are more than welcome for other sites. This is just another entry way to the erotic hypnosis community- a way to find other sites as well. There's nothing wrong with options, and it shouldn't be taking anyone away from previously-used sites. And if it does, maybe that other site isn't what you're looking for. Again, giving options isn't a bad thing. In fact, it should just help the community grow stronger.
This site is work in progress. It's growing and building and only aiming to help the community band together. We are hypno-kinksters united, finding ourselves and helping others find themselves in different ways. Hypwatch can be a gateway for people to find their inner-kinkster. It can help people find bonds beyond they can not imagine. And I think that, together, we can make the hypnosis community bigger and more united than anyone ever thought possible.
Picture this:
You wake up one day, feeling a bit strange. You start to rouse, dragging yourself out of bed. You go to brush your teeth, shower, do the normal things you do in the morning. However, something seems different. You feel drawn, propelled by something.
Your body seems to work on its own. You put on some clothes and some cologne. You grab your keys, head out the door, and start driving.
'What am I doing?' you wonder. 'Where am I going?' Despite your internal argument, you can't stop yourself.
Your arms and legsautomatically make the motions of driving.
You drive for hours, unsure of what's going on. Suddenly, you see a hotel and pull over.
Your legs feel like jello as you walk over to a room door. You knock on the one listed "9."
You shake with anticipation, still having no clue what's going on. The door slowly opens, a woman on the other side.
No.
Not a woman.
A Goddess. In leather.
She sneers, ushering you in. Without hesitation, your legs force you in the room.
The gorgeous woman closes the door behind you. This small motion triggers something within you. Your legs collapse.
You end up on your knees, looking down at the floor.
It feels like the wind got knocked out of you. You gasp for air as you hear thigh-high leather boots on the floor, getting closer. You swallow hard. You don't know what's going to happen.
The woman grabs the back of your neck and wraps a collar around it.
"You remember your place, don't you, slave?" She whispers into your ear. "You can remember your orders now. The orders I gave you to wake up, to drive to this hotel, and to come here to me. You can remember how I made you forget all of that and how easily your mind accepted it. Now, allow that to sink in and prepare yourself. I have a lot in store for you."
In front of me is a large screen, and a huge spiral pops up. My eyes can't resist but stare at it. I can feel myself drop down so quickly, my mind emptying, my body becoming limp. Then I hear your voice so close to my ear, mmmmm. Talking to me, as my pussy gets wetter and wetter with each word you say. Your words are fucking both my body and mind at the same time. Mmmm. You tell me to cum. I can't resist your words, so I do..hard.. I fucking crave to experience that, you have no idea how much...
I've been getting some great answers to my question over on Reddit:
I'm very interested in the topic of hypnotic safeties in recreational hypnosis and I'm finding it hard to find information about this by googling. I would love to have a conversation about safeties and I've compiled a few questions I'm hoping will generate a bit of discussion that I can learn from.
What is your understanding of the term "safeties"?
What types of safeties are important for you to have? Which are essential?
Have there been situations you wished you'd had safeties for and if so, which do you wish you'd had?
For tists: what safeties do you like to give your subjects? How do you make your suggestions safe?
Reaching into his pocket, he slid his phone out to see who the caller was. Andy sighed again, seeing his wife's name on his phone. They had gotten into a fight before leaving for work. He was just not in the mood. He cleared his throat and shoved his phone back into his pants.
Andy burrowed his face in his hands. He knew that he really needed to finish these reports, but his mind was everywhere else. Looking out the window, he followed several cars with his eyes. Andy didn't hate his job like most people, but he was distracted.
Who was she?
She walked opposite of him near the shops on Andy's commute to work. He had seen her 2 days in a row. He couldn't get her out of his head. Bright red hair that wove around her face, neck, and shoulders. Her bright red lips. Long legs. Cute feet in perfect heels.
She walked with a grace and confidence that turned Andy on so much. She smiled through her lips and crystal silver eyes. She wore makeup that only enhanced her natural features. She was beautiful. To Andy, she was possibly the most beautiful creature he had ever envisioned.
Andy's fantasies were startled away by a knock at the door. Glancing over, he furled his brow in confusion as his boss walked in.
"Hey, Andrew. I have a new client who would like to discuss opening an account with us. Can you please help her out?"
Ugh. Andy hated consultations. He didn't get commissions, and it felt like such a waste of time. Andy looked at his boss, glaring. He knew that Andrew wasn't a fan of these things.
"Oh, um..." Andy stammered, flustered, "Sure. Of course. Send them in."
Andy's boss left the room, and Andy could hear him talking to someone.
Expecting his normal geriatric man, he was surprised to see a woman walk into his office.
Not just any woman. Her. Her hair and eyes gave her away instantly. Her perfection was immediately recognizable.
She wore a classy, yet sexy red suit that showed just enough of her cleavage. Enough to make him imagine, fantasize, fascinate on...
Oh, fuck. He was staring. Andy swallowed and attempted to get his thoughts organized.
"Hello, ma'am. My name is Andrew Robinson."
She crossed the room with that same confidence he had found so attractive. Andrew stood up, held out his hand, and prepared to feel her hand against his in a handshake.
But it never came.
She just stared at him. Looked once at his hand. Stared into his eyes again.
She stood inches away from Andrew. He could smell her aroma. It wasn't perfume, but just her delicious and sweet natural odor. It was intoxicating to be so close to her.
Her smile disarmed him. He no longer had any sense of guard or protection. He was vulnerable.
She reached in finally, slowly. As he leaned for her hand, she quickly grabbed his wrist. Andrew's mind couldn't quite comprehend what just happened. She had moved too quickly. She had grabbed his wrist. She had done everything off. Wrong. He didn't know how to resp-
Sleep now." She spoke sternly.
Andy's mind was so confused. So lost. The moment she spoke, Andy's mind welcomed the instruction. He needed to be told how to react, and he needed to react that way. It was too confusing not to.
Andy's eyes slammed shut, and his head slumped forward. He didn't pass out. It wasn't like he was unconscious. But he was unable to fight. He was unable to think about fighting. It just felt good to notice how he had his head rested in that perfect cleavage.
Was it proper? Was it appropriate? Was this a good thing to do at work?
These were thoughts that passed through Andy's mind, as he had his face on her chest. He wanted to just relax like this for the rest of eternity. He had nothing to do. Nothing to worry about. "Well, then, Andy. You're going to be coming with me. Get your wallet and your coat. We're going shopping."
Andrew didn't have the strength or the fight to resist. All he wanted was more of her. All he wanted was to see her smile. All he wanted was to give her everything. "Yes, ma'am." Andy mumbled, hardly able to move his lips.
"Oh, no, love," the woman smiled sinisterly, "It's Mistress from now on."
This site, Hypwatch, was conceived in around November 2015 by a number of moderators of the previous leading erotic hypnosis site, Hypbook. We were worried that Hypbook might not be maintained for much longer (with good reason, as events proved). We committed to make sure that people with interests in consensual erotic hypnosis (whether active hypno-kinksters, those just curious, or those in between) had a friendly and welcoming online community and social network.
This site became public on 31 January 2016, just under a year ago. It has not been without its share of challenges. Now, as Hypwatch approaches its first anniversary, our community needs us more than ever.
FetLife, the mother of all kink communities, has purged all groups and fetishes with "hypnosis" in the name - affecting thousands upon thousands of members. Its founder has said they "are still going through FetLife to see if anything else needs to be removed or cleaned up". So much for the idea of no "kink shaming", their founder's post of 11 hours ago makes it clear that erotic hypnosis (a perfectly legal activity) is no longer welcome on FetLife.
We all know how much of a setback for the erotic hypnosis community this is, and for our right to be acknowledged as practising a form of eroticism that is more safe, sane and consensual than many of the other "acceptable" kinks allowed to continue on FetLife.
Prior to the FetLife purge yesterday (my local time), this site had over 1500 members, which I personally thought was a reasonable achievement for our first year. We have seen an influx of new members since the purge and I expect this will continue. We will no doubt see many more new members joining the site (although many of them will be established hypno-kinksters from FetLife and elsewhere).
No doubt this will cause some more teething and technical issues and the odd clash of persons here and there. With our hard work as site administrators and moderators, and with your goodwill and support as members of the community, we will get through all of these challenges.
As a co-founder and administrator of this site, with the support of my colleagues, and I hope with your support as our members:
WE RECOMMIT to making Hypwatch the very best, friendly and welcoming online community and social network for everyone interested in consensual erotic hypnosis.
WE RECOMMIT to making Hypwatch a place where people from around the world can meet, socialise, talk, exchange ideas and just have fun without being pressured to hide or feel ashamed of their kinks.
WE RECOMMIT to making Hypwatch a place of knowledge and education, where people can learn and exchange teachings about erotic hypnosis techniques, safety, ideas and all manner of related topics.
WE RECOMMIT to making Hypwatch a true online home for the erotic hypnosis community, a place where members can feel safe while exploring their interests.
We will be updating these every FRIDAY, so this week there’s two!
Want to listen to sleepingirl and cckitten get drunk and talk about hypnosis and kink, and do some trance? Of course you do! Join us for our 20-minute podcast and get a nice look into our usual nightly chats about D/s, brainwashing, you know, our usual stuff! Now formalized for your listening enjoyment!
There was a bit of muddiness for about 7 minutes in this one which I do apologize for, and shouldn’t happen again. Sorry guys! It’s still listenable, just not as good quality for that time. (The sound comes back for the trance at the end though! :) )
* Warnings *
this file will implant triggers into your mind.. This file will also cause you to seek me out for hypnotic and sexual slavery.. Watch this file alone as it has an happy ending.. You have been warned now onto The Rosebud Experience..
Here it finally is.. you have enjoyed The Rosebud Experience in text form.. Now just sit back and relax as you listen to it..
Best with Stereo headphones..
Sit or lay in a comfy position..
eliminate all distractions..
and enjoy..
let me know what you think of it at the end..
Let
me try
to interest
you, in a little
game of words
where the idea is
for you to read these
and become absorbed
and pay attention to them
and as you do, you are drawn
closer, into focusing on my words
your focus growing more intense and
you find yourself intrigued and interested
as you continue to narrow your focus on me
and my thoughts, that change over time
nothing existing now but my words
and their sound which you love
drifting down so narrow now
what remains is your focus
which drops down now
to narrow further
and further
deeper
down
dow
n
and
then
coming
up again
awakening
becoming alert
more and more up
returning to a normal
state of consciousness
feeling wonderfully calm
having enjoyed the little dip
coming up to go down again
breathing in the fresh air deeply
preparing to reach the peak of awake
because you know that very soon
it will be time to return down
drifting so deeply down
drowsier and drowsier
the deeper you drop
better and better
dropping down
your mind
warming
safe
dow
n
and
this
place
feeling
so good
you don't
want to rise
so let's just
sink back
return
down
dow
n
but
having
to come
back because
i want you rising
all the way back up
more alert, more aware
refreshed and energetic
with a feeling of enjoyment
from a fun little game with words
that dance across the page and amuse
and you smile because this is so much fun
and you know it will become even better
because very soon now it is going
to change again, and your mind
will follow my words down
because once again
you'll be dropping
deeper down
as before
taking
you
to
the
soft
warm
feeling
enveloping
feels so good
but you don't want
to come back up again
so let's just stay
down here
a little bit
longer
drops
down
dow
n
and
again
upwards
it's time now
to come back
to return to awake
coming up so gently
feeling peace and wonder
knowing this must come to an end
at some stage, but perhaps you're lucky
and it might not be right here and right now
maybe here you'll be given a lovely opportunity
to slip down the page and feel the sliding
that happens as you focus once more
and as you feel that delicious drop
that happens when you let go
and drift back down again
drowsy and drowsier
deep and deeper
which feels
better
down
to
a
new
place
feeling
comfortable
calm and safe
secure and
feeling
warm
lazy
and
soon
it's time
to come up
and this time
you might not be
able to slip back down
because sooner or later
you have to return to reality
but when you do you will know
that for a brief while, you were under
and your focus was so intense and sharp
that you gave every single word your attention
and followed me as I led you down and up and down
and up again and further and further up you must come
until you're all the way up with me, aware, alert and awake
Welcome back
My tip for the guys today is that you need to make a good first impression. When the lady of your desire is sifting through 10 or more messages, you'll need to stand out from the crowd if you want her attention.
I'd start with reading the lady's profile. If she's clearly a subject only, she's not likely to be interested in wanting to trance you, no matter how desperate you come across. Indeed, desperation is usually a big turn off.
Conversely, is she's solely a hypnotist, then she's unlikely to be interested in going into trance for you. Or maybe she's only into other women, in which case you're out of luck, fellas. Maybe she's specified age limits or something else.
So step number one, read the lady's profile and ask yourself: Do our interests align? Are we likely to be compatible? What do I have to offer that makes me better than being just another dude trying desperately to find a woman for a hypno quickie - unless her profile says she's all about quick hypno meetups
Next chapter: Be respectful
WARNING: Hypnotic language with Dominant themes.
You never do things like this. The paper was just in your pocket. When you pulled the paper out and saw the address scrawled on it, you couldn't contain the curiousity inside. You had jumped into your car hastily and immediately put the address into your GPS app.
Now you're here. And the door still beckons. You can't remember much of the drive, except for the occassional remind to slow yourself down. You try to stall and distract and rationalize yourself out of this situation. But something still pulls you in.
Realizing there is no fighting, you pull the handle to your car and stand up, exiting the vehicle. As you turn around to face the house, the magnetism is stronger than ever. Something is waiting for you inside. You just know it.
Your feet drag you across the grass of the lawn, ignoring the paved walkway. You glance down at the paper you now have in your hand. There is one more thing written on the paper. The moment you had read this word, your body had moved automatically.
Nothing else matters. Not a job. Not a life. Nothing but being here. And the final word on the paper. You knock on the door. The word sits on your tongue. It waits. It needs to be said. Needs to be moaned. Needs to be-
The door begins to move.
Behind the door, a woman stands before you. Her eyes sparkle with the intensity of every soul within heaven and hell, her lips are a deep red like the scalding hot pleasure rushing through you now, and her curves that compete with the marble figurines of Goddesses.
The word slips out of your lips.
"Mistress."
You fall to your knees. You never wish to rise. You never wish to be anything more than the nothing that you feel like right now. Your mind craves to stare into those swirling, mesmerizing eyes and listen to words from those lips.
"Mistress."
You can't stop repeating the word again and again in your mind. And you just need more. You need to let go of everything else and give everything to your One True Mistress.
You need to serve and obey and kneel and beg and belong to the One True Mistress.
Your mind shatters into a billion different pieces as you realize that you've fallen into a trap. That you had lost the moment you reached into your pocket. There is no way out now.
And that's just the way you like it.
I've written a few erotic hypnosis stories... Typically based off an erotic image. This is the first one I ever wrote. I'd love comments if people enjoy! I can post more if there is interest!
... more
Hypnosis Negotiation
So when I am negotiating hypnosis play, I ask for four individual lists. And I ask for each list to be labeled, and each item on that list to be its own line. So I am able to easily locate each list in my notes while they are in trance. These four lists are…
Hard Limits:
Limit 1.
Limit 2.
Etc.
(Things you absolutely will not do, even if someone offered you $100.)
Landmines:Landmine 1.
Landmine 2.
Etc.
(Things you know you don’t respond well to that the hypnotist should be aware of. Such as, if you are afraid of heights. “Saying falling.” may be a landmine. Or if someone has a common trigger in you you don’t want duplicated by someone else. Or anything else that the hypnotist may stumble upon accidentally which you know you won’t respond well to. I hate being called Sweetie. Out of trance its an annoyance, in trance its made me cry. So, “calling me Sweetie” is one of my landmines.)
Safewords:
Safeword to Pause and discuss.
Safeword to Stop all play and Start aftercare.
Safeword to Start play or Convey something is good for you.
(I work with a lot of people across the world. The Stoplight system seems to be pretty universal. Yellow = Pause, Red = Stop, and Green = Go.
You may chose other words. If you want to pick other words, chose words that make you feel safe, come to you automatically and that you are unlikely to say during a session.)
Hypnotic/BDSM Interests:
Interest 1.
Interest 2.
Etc.
(Things they like experiencing under trance. I will ask them to delete anything I’m not okay with doing. I also ask them a few of the things I am really into. If they are interested in those, too, I’ll ask for those interests to be added to the list.
Then we have a set pre-negotiated list I can pull from anytime I am working with them. If I’m doing a session in which one aspect isn’t working for either of us, I can easily let it go, look on their Hypnotic Interests list and snag something from there.)
I ask them to let me know if there are any changes to the list, and I update the lists accordingly.
This is proper negotiation. Organized so the Hypnotist can easily look it up when they need it, even if the subject is deep in trance.
If you think this is good information, please share this. The more people who know how to properly negotiate, the better it is for the community.
PS: You may also want to negotiate Aftercare. Aftercare is usually discussed between me and my subjects and I rarely write it down.
Hush now, sweet one, have no fear
You can relax now that I am here.
Relax your body, calm your mind
And utter pleasure you will find.
Relax and be calm, drift far away,
And follow the words that I have to say.
It feels right, and it feels good
When you obey, like you know you should.
Let my words help you to go down deep
And send your body and mind to a sound sleep
Because you enjoy that submission so much
And in your mind, my control does touch.
So be good, little one, and soon you will see
How good it can be, should you obey me
Come back up, come back to me,
But be prepared to never, ever be free.
Below is a compressed chart- for this one I did a linear regression of the raw data then solved for hypnotic effectiveness as a function of color:
So this model (while not fully tested for statistical significance) gives us some pretty good ideas for color choice in subjects between my min and max interview age. Red is generally not liked (except pink sometimes) but orange and yellow improve as hypnotic colors as the subject ages. Green is not very effective with younger subjects but its effect seems to increase as the subject ages. Blue on the other hand, seems universally regarded as a calming relaxing color and is fairly useful when making visuals for subjects regardless of age. the effectiveness of violet seems similar to that of green, however violet isnt as effective as green is in subjects 45+.
I'm still building these models, so there is plenty of room for other discoveries or even for information to overturn what ive learned so far!
Are you looking to get into some Hyponosis themed Discords? Here are a few to get you going!
First, there is the official Hypwatch Discord - https://discord.gg/6B52f7j
Now that's over with:
Hypno-Fetish - https://discord.gg/ekcJ5r3 -- Exercise Due Caution
Pattern Palace - https://discord.gg/BmuwH3v
Erotic Hypnosis - https://discord.gg/ctwq7zz
Mind Melting Machine / Mind Massaging Machine - https://discord.gg/Y55shKB
Not Hypnosis but including it for benefit of a few people:
TG/TV Paradise - https://discord.gg/Ku8k5jG (support Discord for transgender, transvestite, sissy, etc.)
If I screwed up any of the links or if you want to add more to the list, let me know. HypnoHub.net also has a Discord, but they have it set to not allow invite links so you need to go to their website and go through there to sign up.
As a reminder, you can follow me on many social media sites to see new spirals. The master list is at my Linktree. New is that the high definition spirals are now looping on Tumblr and Ello (they've been able to loop here for a while when I don't screw it up). On Vimeo, you can download copies of all my spirals from the comment page in 2k x 2k high definition, and they're free to use under the Creative Commons with Attribution (CC BY 3) - yes, even for commercial purposes you need only link to where you got the thing and if even that much is too much, lets talk.
Those words ring through my mind, like bells echoing in the morning air.
For him? I would do anything for him. I would give him my heart, surrender my mind, sacrifice my innermost desires.
When he says those words, my heart leaps and a blanket of warmth wraps around it. My eyes flood over with a blue haze, one that almost blinds me. I normally need to be aware of myself and my thoughts at all times; with him, I allow myself to rest. I trust him. I give him all of me, including my defenses.
There is a rumble to his voice that shakes my soul and leaves my legs like jello. It sends a shock through my system with every word he utters. His voice, oh my god, his voice. It’s like every good memory that I have within my mind is being relived when he speaks. My mouth waters for more of what only he can give me. His eyes pierce into my mind and I feel my own begin to swirl and spiral in response.
Many of you are not aware that I am a lifestyle Domme. I began My journey withing the BDSM community, explored a lot of roles, and discovered a lot along the way and being a Dominant is the role that feels most authentic to Me. Molding a person and shaping them to My desires is My biggest kink. I cannot specify what this looks like off-hand, because each submissive brings out something different in Me, and today I want to talk about My preferences for a submissive. This will not include submissives whose sole purpose in their lives is to please their Dominant, which is a valid lifestyle, however, I prefer submissives that have boundaries and has personal limits for their mental, physical, and emotional health, well-being and happiness.
Before approaching Me, a submissive should have these things in order:
*Know yourself and articulate what you want
*Be willing to explore and push your boundaries
*Know that trust and communication are the building blocks to a fiery D/s relationship
*Be ready to make a formal agreement (Sub/Slave Contract)
Mutual pleasure are important to Me. The reason why D/s relationships are referred to as power “exchange” is because each party should get something out of the arrangement. So know yourself and be able to articulate what you want (while remembering the Dominant's pleasure comes first). Those are the best and most fun submissives.
Times are strange. Times are rough. Take a moment to refuel.
(Content warning: hypnotic language, trance, post-hypnotic suggestion for wellbeing)
Some think that hypnotic trance is about relaxation
but in fact relaxation is only a by-product of trance
it can be a route to trance
but it is not trance itself
trance is a state of focused attention
and in order to induce trance
all I have to do is focus your attention
and there's nothing that you have to do
but read my words
follow them down the screen
as you sit in your chair
dropping your shoulders down
scrolling when you have to, but keeping your eyes on the screen
blinking when you have to
eyes wide open, focused on the screen
and reading
Now,
What would it be like to be so focused that you anticipate each word
that you wait for each word
that you focus more with each word
as all the sounds around you fade into the background
if you focus as deeply as I know you can
focus on each and every word
they become sharp and real
they will become your reality
you're becoming more and more focused now
with every breath you take
breathing in and out
more focused
and how deeply could you focus
if you narrowed down that focus
to focus so deeply
if you turned your focus inward
you could focus on the sounds that form my words
and hear them in your ears
or see the words deep in your mind
or you could feel the words shaping your focus
feel them reverberate in your body
see or hear or feel the wonderful effects
that my words have on your mind and body
and even if you do not feel them now
they will become easier and easier to notice
and that will be a wonderful feeling
won't it?
excellent
and with your focus on my words
you can begin to notice
the spaces between my words
see the spaces
focus on the spaces
as the spaces get longerand longer
each word each space
holding your attention
longer and longer
as the gaps increase
and the gaps grow so large
that you lose thoughts in them
your thoughts dropping
into the spaces
until the spaces
begin to close up again
and your focus returns
from the spaces
back to the words
each word closer to the next
until you notice that the gaps
have closed again
and once more the words flow smoothly
and you focus smoothly
and pay attention to the calm comfort
that reading my words brings
your eyes now resting again
feeling so good
aren't you?
very good
and now you can read
about everything that happens
or does not happen
as you continue your narrow focus
while you listen to me
and my thoughts, that change over time
or stay the same as they flow down
but what remains is focus
which drops down now
to narrow further
and further
deeper
down
dow
do
n
the
lazy
place
warming
your mind
which feels
better and better
the deeper you drop
drowsier and drowsier
drifting so deeply now
nothing else existing now
but my words and their sound
which you love to follow down
don't you?
that's right
drifting, feeling so peaceful
knowing now that you are okay
that what you feel is okay
that what you think is okay
that everything will be okay
You've got this
and the peace you feel now will remain with you
for the rest of the day
and you will take it with you into sleep
and be able to recall it when you need it
and ever so slowly becoming aware
of becoming more and more aware
and coming up gently
more alert, more awake
in the time of your own mind
feeling wonderful
feeling energised
refreshed
aware
alert
awake
up
Up
UP
Welcome back
Well, I did it. I finally had enough. After watching a sniping, pointless back-and-forth between my mom and my cousin calling each other hypocrites over Christianity and abortion and the US refugee ban (three words, which, by the way, turn my fucking stomach, just so you know), I decided that Facebook had outlived its usefulness. I archived my FB data, downloaded it, and deleted my account. The process took maybe 5-10 minutes, and my account is deactivated for the next 14 days, during which I can log back in and undo my deletion, if I want.
But I don't want to. Over the past couple years, my Facebook has been steadily decreasing its signal-to-noise ratio. I joined Facebook because it was fun, because I could keep up with my friends and family who I didn't see that often. Now I just see a wasteland of snarky political memes, links to articles full of slanted or outright false information, pointless arguments, ridiculous levels of toxicity, and stupid bullshit ("what does your choice of deodorant say about YOU? Take our quiz!").
All I wanted was to see what my people were doing. And cat memes. And for that, I was fine with giving Facebook access to my information, my likes, tons of valuable advertising data. And it really wasn't that bad until the past year or two, when I began noticing a slow but definite slide into noise over signal. I could have abided even that, but then came the 2016 US election, and turned Facebook into a hateful swamp of toxic mess from both sides of the political spectrum (the fact that there's only two sides to our political spectrum: another thing that turns my stomach).
So, it's done. I'm cut off. I'm sure I'm going to come across as this generation's version of one of those insufferable "I don't have a TV" people, but it's strangely freeing. I feel...unleashed, in a way, not beholden to that little "f" icon on my phone or tab on my browser. Will I miss it?
I don't know that there was anything left to miss.
Hi everyone,
Lately I have been hooked on reading peoples tumblr hypnosis scripts. I always make sure to zoom to the end before I read though, just to make sure there are no... now contact me with your debit card or I am now your master/mistress forever sentences.
A few of them have brought me pretty deep and there is something to be said for the mystery of who is behind the script. A few of them sneak up on you too and are probably the closest i've come to unexpected covert hypnosis. *blush*
**bound rubber smiles and deeply tranced hugs**
tami
In my earlier post, we discussed what are the qualities of a good hypnotist. But that of course, that leads into the next question, "What are the qualities of a good hypnotic subject."
As I was formulating this question, I went through several iterations and refinement of the question... As a hypnotist, I've had a variety of different subjects, some better than others - some were apprehensive, while others were resistant, while other practically entered trance the moment we started talking. But, what was the essence that made one subject better than another. Is there a singular trait or are there multiple factors? The question might seem simple, but as you look at in a deeper contex, the answer(s) become more complex.
This post isn't about what a hypnotist is looking for in a subject (that will be another post ) but what traits or qualities that make a good subject.
My initial thought was expectations - what exactly is the subject expecting what trance is, what it feels like, or are their expectations realistic. So can those expectations be managed?
But with, expectations being managed, there needs to be a degree of openness to have those expectations managed. We are still bound by the limits of the physical world - yet those limits in the mind can be much different.
Is it agreeableness, or conversely, non-resistance? Either way, both of these can be managed by changing the type of induction. A good resistance hypnotic play is alway fun
So what else is there? Often suggestability tests are used to assess a subject, but again those can be managed by by the hypnotist with the induction, the style (authoritative or permissive, etc.) and tyloring the session to the subjects particular strengths.
Is it willingness to learn or explore? After all, all interaction and any hypnotic session is a learning experience for both the subject and hypnotist.
Or is it just desire - that want to enter a different state for what it is?
Is there a singular answer or is it a multi-faceted set of traits unique to each subject?
Let's hear your thoughts... GO!
I repeat.
Over and over.
As many times as you tell me.
I repeat.
It makes my mind so empty.
And wet between my legs.
I repeat.
Your words are my words.
No more thinking on my own.
I repeat.
Even as you take my body.
Making me yours even more.
I repeat...
My love is international
but that doesn't make it more rational.
You are on the other side of the ocean.
I look at your picture and I'm full of emotion.
My eyes fill with tears as I am ashamed of myself.
Why you? Why not someone else?
How did I loose my mind like that?
My head flew away like a too small hat.
I love you, but I know it's bad.
And even though it makes me sad
I know I have to let you go.
There is something that I know.
I need more sleep, i need it now.
I have to let you go, but how?
I guess i just turn around and leave.
And hope that my heart finds relief.
First, a caveat: I don't want to "yuck your yum," as they say. There are plenty of kinks that can be practiced ethically or not, and frankly plenty of kinks that can be healthy outlets despite harsh judgment from society at large. But these are things that I think can be contemplated in what we do.
What is the commonality that links the various sissies? To listen to Urban Dictionary: "A sissy is an [AMAB] male; who acts really feminine, slutty, horny, also really bimbo-like, etc." But it seems to me that even if we accept this definition of sissies, it doesn't encompass everyone in this similar set of categories.
I would say that sissies are defined by people who were assigned male at birth but express a gender or sexual identity that is femme-presenting. This involves many different genders, including those who are still male but cross-dress, the gender fluid, transgender women, and others. The common link is the femme presentation. Additionally, that presentation is stressed and accentuated in many cases (similar to the hyper-femininity often associated with drag). *EVERYONE* performs gender (yes, even you, daddies), but sissies pursue an idealized hyper-femininity and focus extra effort on the performance of femininity (ie "act really feminine").
Hypnosis is involved in the accentuation or "implantation" of these feminine traits and minimization or "removal" of the masculine. But I personally don't care for it when it focuses on humiliation or degradation.
If sissies are characterized by the embrace of the feminine, there are some who have a somewhat Freudian outlook on what constitutes femininity. Their status as a sissy isn't associated with the positive femininity that they express, but rather as a negative "failed" male. They characterize being feminine with the mere absence of masculinity (though loss of masculinity can play into it, there is something added by femininity, as well). This includes things such as focus on the impotence or loss of a penis ("my tiny dick is pathetic"), an inability to please women ("I can't please women, and am only good for men to satisfy their needs"), and being "treated like a woman" as an inherently negative thing.
But, again, okay; if that's your kink, go practice that kink safely and consensually, with my blessing. Humiliation is a valid kink, as is playing with gender. But I prefer to focus on sissies for their excellent feminine qualities, not their "deficient" male qualities. Not just "all I'm good for is to men take their pleasure with me," but "I am good at giving me pleasure (and taking pleasure in turn). I am sexy and pleasing to men." I love the playfulness of accentuating and heightening femininity, the desire to seduce and be seduced. The assurance of knowing that men want you. Even when hypnosis is involved in "turning" someone into a sissy, I think that this can be focused on in a positive manner.
How does gender and sexual identity get involved, then, you ask? (thank you for that wonderful question, hypothetical reader I made up for rhetorical purposes). First, the sissy is usually more aware that they are "performing" gender, and aware that they are doing it well. There is an aura of being irresistible because they aren't assuming their femme presentation is innate: that they so desirable than even a man who thinks he's primary attracted to cis women finds that he can't help but give in. Similarly, the sissy is often playing with heteronormativity internally. Working from the assumption that they "should" be hetero (even if we know this mindset isn't correct) lends a similar air of feeling out of control with desire- eg that the NEED for cock is so great it overwhelms one's "natural" inclinations. For many of us, we are playing with our "default" heteronormativity and using it to accentuate the experience (kinks subvert societal norms for a reason).
So what I enjoy is the playfulness of sexually tense interactions, that back and forth of seduction. Of the need that both of you have, and the positive feeling of being desired, of being desirable. And of ignoring or overpowering any "traditional" notions of gender.
For me, the hypnosis is not based on being insufficient as a sexual being, but from being insufficient to resist one's desires. You can be turned into a needy little slut who is helpless for cock. But not because you're a pathetic man, but because you're a voracious sexual being who just can't control your appetites. You may have to be obedient and subservient, but not because if you were a "real" man you would be more powerful. No, because it feels so good to be obedient that you can't help yourself but give in.
The last thing in my head that I could remember was waking back home that day , for some reason my mother was too busy to come get me at the bus stop. I remember hearing something behind me and turning back. My mind was getting less and less foggy but yet I had no memory of where or how I got into the place I was now lying. Looking up I saw instead of a ceiling a dark purple cloth that seemed to be covering the top of the frame of a large bed. Looking right and left I could have better detail of the room that was in some very smooth light given by a crystal chandelier coming down in the middle of the room. The room was furnished by majestic ebony wood furniture that seem to be from another time. The chair and sofa were double with the same dark velvet that was covering the bed but also the window letting no light come in the room from the outside. I couldn’t tell if it was day or night.
I sat up and felt my
head begging to be dizzy and still foggy. By sitting up the blanket of the bed
that was covering me slipped down my body reveling I wasn’t dress like I was in
my memory. Who had undressed me and put me in this black silk night dress?
Looking around the room I could see the doors: one on the wall facing the bed
and one on my left. So I decided to stand up and walk to the door to my left.
When my feet touch the ground, I realized that the floor was cover with a soft
carpet.
I slowly stood up, my head being still dizzy from what ever drug or what ever was given to me, and started walking slowly toward the door holding myself to the wall when reaching the door. I tried turning the handle and the door was locked tight. Whoever my captor was he had no intention of letting me out that way. At the same moment, I heard a noise on my left. The door that was on the other side of the room a figure was standing in the door way.
A tall man was leaning on the door frame his arms crossed on his chest
looking at me. I had difficulty making out his face because the light of the
other room was a lot stronger then the one in the room I was standing it. When
my eye crossed his, he started walking toward me for some reason I walk back
into the wall beside the bed. When hitting the wall I look back behind me for a
second and when I turn my head toward him again he was standing a few centimetres
from me making my whole body shiver in both fear and apprehension.
He put one of his hands on the wall behind me getting even
closer to me. My heart almost skipped a beat when I felt his arm so close to my
head. My eyes looked up to his face and our eyes cross and locked into a stare
that seem like an eternity. I was about to say something when he put his finger
on my lips like he knew what I was about to do the second it went through my
thoughts. In a sweet ‘’chute’’ any word that had cross my mind mysteriously
disappear from my mind. Then he suddenly had he stop my word his and caress my
check down to my chin that he carefully take in his hand raising my head toward
him. For some reason the only thing I could focus on was his eyes and the evil
and satisfied smile on his face. The darkness of his eye completely fascinated
me for a few seconds before I felt some sort of energy coming off his hand. For
the first time, I was able to see some sort of glow around my face like a dark purple
glowing fog starting to surround me. This strange fog started to enter me by my
breathing and penetrate my skin.
The energy started to enter by a deep breath a took and then feeling it caress my skin to completely penetrate every exposed skin started to crawl inside me like a fever that made my skin uber sensitive and a certain low and certain arousal started to take possession of my body. And the more this fog entered me the more my mind started to feel his influence or whatever he was doing to me. My body was betraying me the arousal was not only making my mind weaker.
A moment of conciseness I tried to push it off, push the arousal push
the urge to obey but each wall , each door just got crushed and burned sending
the feeling of a wave of pleasure each and every time one of them was removed.
It felt also like someone new all the combination without even saying a word
she was revealing all of them.
But then no more wall could be built and letting only though
of submitting and obeying flow in my mind. The thought that I must obey started
to play in my head. During this time I could feel his hand to caress my face
that had become blank but sometime the sensation of arousal growing and growing
in me. I couldn’t stop it my mind was getting more and more overwhelmed by the
purple shroud of energy outside and inside my body.
My knee started to fall at the force of the pleasure that was building on my skin and all the intimate places the energy was now touching under the garment I was wearing. The hand of his that was on the wall went behind me to hold me against him. The arousal over took me and the obedience that went with it. He caressed my head slowly for some reason his smile was now tender and reassuring. I didn’t want to think about him kidnapping me or that I wasn’t here because I wanted to be but because I needed to be his. All my desire was to be his. I wanted him to take every last drop of my soul of my head and heart. I just needed to obey him and be his. Completely his. I suddenly felt an orgasm build and build and with a word in my ear feeling my body explode in pleasure I didn’t even know I could feel.
In this second my mind accepted him as my
Master I didn’t want anything else but to serve and obey him. I wanted him to
take me and I just wanted his attention. I didn’t care about my past. I didn’t
care anymore for my future. All that mattered was that I needed his energy, his
powerful influence around me. From my head to my toes that all that was
possessing me. After that powerful arousal he took me in his arms and brought
me back to my bed lying down with me my head on his chest, him petting my head
while I was breathing heavy not knowing what he had in store for me and I
didn’t care anymore.
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I have recently become the pet of a wonderful Mistress. She is very kind and caring. She has put herself out and given up things just to have me. She is truly an exceptional person.
She has been going through a lot in her life lately. People she thought were her friends started to distance themselves. Instead of being supportive, they yell at her and tell her she is doing everything wrong. What she needs are true friends who support her and encourage her.
It’s a shame that some people don’t see her the way that I do. Mistress is the total package of brains and beauty. Yes, I’ve seen her and wouldn’t change a thing about her. She has a way of bringing out the best in people. She has made me a better person.
It pains me to see what a few insensitive people have done to her. I wish there was some way I could convince her how wonderful she is. Maybe people will read this and realize the friendship they are missing out on. She is a remarkable woman and it’s an honor to be her pet.
20+ different kinds of orgasms
Playing with different types of orgasms is something i really enjoy.
A year ago i thought a female could orgasm in 3 different ways.
Either clitoral, vaginal or anal. Or a combination i guess.
Now a few years later i play with at least 20 very different kinds or orgasms.
The dictionary tells us 1*:
or·gasm
noun
1.
the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation,
usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
I really like how they say ''usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ''.
They are open enough to understand that there are other ways to make someone cum as well.
They even understand that a male does not always have to ejaculate while he still can experience an orgasm.
So with this in mind let me explain some of the orgasms Master and i play with.
Keep in mind though, that you might experience something else then i do. Different people have different responses!
nipple orgasm:
It starts out slow, like the end of my nipples starts to itch
and than it starts to tickle an then it spreads true out my boobs and its just a lovely sensation!
anal orgasm:
I knew people could have anal orgasms when stimulated in the area. But it never worked for me. I enjoy anal, but i couldn't cum from it. Not that i mind, an orgasm isn't the highest goal, delicious sex is. But my mind apparently had a pretty clear idea of what that must be like. When Master triggered this for the first time, i said i can't..... and then i got totally amazed! I had an anal orgasm. I felt muscles contract and pleasure and it was super intense! Especially cause i didn't think i could. Since then we have been playing with this a lot and now i can actually have anal orgasms when stimulated even without hypnosis. And i can experience it without being stimulated but with hypnosis. cool, cool, cool! (if you get this reference, you are officially awesome!)
spiritual orgasm:
Master and I had a long talk about this one. Because quite frankly it can work pretty damn addictive. This orgasm isn't that much physical. Its my inner being, my mind, my soul that burst and floats and explodes. I have never experienced anything like it. And its not really comparable to anything else. Its very overwhelming and beautiful. Its slow and deep and its like my mind is having an orgasm in staid of my body.
true loves orgasm:
First of all, if you plan to use this on your subject, make sure you state very clearly that this is about self love. Not your love. Its not fair to play with people's emotions that way, except i guess when you have clear consent. So true self love, wave after wave after wave. I still cry most times when i experience this. When you feel the beauty inside you and when you feel so connected to yourself and your emotions and love. silk orgasm: Silky orgasms are soft, slow and deep. Very pleasurable and not too overwhelming; as in i don't fall/shake out of my chair or bed
slow motion orgasm:
This is something Master has introduced me to recently. Often he just gives me an orgasm trigger and then he makes it slow motion. Which i like best. It's very overwhelming and at exactly the right time Master slows it down and it prolongs the orgasm in a very nice way. Also this type of orgasm really makes me realize how much Master is in control over my body. one word and the whole experience changes, for the better that is.
lightning orgasm:
The best way to explain is, imagine 10 hitachi's plus 10 fairy wands at your clit for 5 seconds. yeah..... i know right O.o
earthquake orgasm:
Earthquakes have after shocks, very intense ones if its the season
thunderstorm orgasm:
So this is like the lightning orgasm, only i feel it on my G-spot. And it doesn't stop after a few seconds. It goes one until Master tells me the storm is over. Sometimes it storms all night! If it does, we curl up in bed and he holds me tight, while orgasm after orgasm sweeps true my body.
gigglegasm:
giggling and laughing and then it vibrates deep down to my clit until i cum.
joygasm:
feeling happy, at ease and wonderfully amazing.
cuddlegasm:
A cuddlegasm is like a warm blanket of strong arms tightly around your whole body. I really enjoy this during after care.
But Master came up with a lot of different cuddlegasm!
Monster cuddlegasm:
extra tight, extra deep, extra dark, extra safe. Yes, that's basically what it comes down to for me.
Kitten cuddlegasm:
being petted all over, feeling the vibrations off the purring all over your body <3
cotton candy cuddlegasm:
being all pink and sticky and yummy and giggly and girly and happy. Sweetest cuddles in the world.
And than Master combines them all together and he gives me
Monster cotton candy kittens cuddlegasms! this is not explainable in words..
I believe that's all the orgasms we have triggers for.
(and NO you do not have permission to use these on me!)
But there are also orgasms that happen from different types of play.
paingasm:
gawd this always makes me feel naughty.. Sometimes when my need for pain is very overwhelming and intense i cum from every hit.
And no he doesn't tell me to. Its just that good. such a sweet release.
And it drops me into subspace quit easily. At the other hand, if he would tell me to lay still, i would be in trouble for sure.
music orgasms:
Okay so this is pretty cool! Master sends me songs and he puts me under in trance.
Then every tone and every beat gives a different sensation.
Its like being fucked in every hole hard, while being softly caressed, kept in place and petted.
And every song is different, so each time we do this i experience something new. Also this can be very emotional.
Brainwashing orgasms:
Every time i finish my brainwashing sentence i orgasm.
energy play orgasm:
well i can write a whole book about this.. Ill write an other post about it.
And then there are of course the moments where Master suggests i feel Xorgasm times 10 or 100 or 10.0000000
and i instantly completely get Blissed
I hope you enjoyed reading this and if you try it out, let me know how it went!
And feel free to add your own too!
All credit goes to my Master, Shadowmancer for without him i could have never experienced or written about this!!
*1. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/orgasm
"You don't think that would still work after all this time, do you?" she asked. My reply was to offer to check and see, to which she agreed.
I tapped her on the forehead and had to catch her as she started to fall over, in deep trance! Her friend was so amazed that she insisted that I entrance her as well, which also worked (and during the induction, the first lady dropped again).
While this is not a personal record (Ask me about that one - it was 22 years or so!), it's still such a kick, both for me and for the subject, when something like this happens!
Hypwatch was conceived in around November 2015. It was the project of a number of people committed to make sure that the erotic hypnosis community would always have a friendly and welcoming online community open to all people interested in consensual erotic hypnosis.
Hypwatch became public on 31 January 2016, exactly one year ago. Today is our first birthday. In that time, Hypwatch has grown to just under 1800 members, and continues to grow. Other metrics of note are 4397 friendships, 2745 photos and 8057 message conversations. We've come a very long way for a non-profit volunteer-run site.
For the Hypwatch management team, it's been an exciting, busy (and sometimes frustrating) year, but overall a happy one. We've managed to build an erotic hypnosis site that has remained true to our goal of being a friendly and welcoming online community. We've had a number of problems and challenges along the way that we've had to deal with (I might have broken the site a couple times and had to restore from backup, but don't tell anyone!), and we've gotten through most of them relatively intact.
There are still areas of the site that need improvement, and we'll continue to address them where and when we can. In the next six months (resources permitting), we hope to address some of the bigger issues, as well as making a lot of small and behind the scenes upgrades (which we are regularly doing). We also intend offering more educational resources as we do see Hypwatch as being a place of learning for the erotic hypnosis community.
With your support, Hypwatch will keep on growing, not only in numbers, but also in terms of the content, features and experiences and quality of service it provides for you, our members.
Thanks to the site management team:
* Skyla - the site represents one of your dreams and visions and I'm so happy to be able to help realise it with you
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And the biggest thanks of all to you, our members. Without you there'd be no site.
Happy birthday, Hypwatch! May you have many, many more.
First is the fact that members will attempt to text chat with Us without even knowing if We are online or at Our computer. The second strange thing is that members expect a highly specialized and trained in professional skill attended by several full certifications, to simply be given away for no compensation. While this may be acceptable to some practitioners of this Art, it is so unacceptable to Us, that We have opted out of live performance of Our Art entirely.
The next strange thing is that members will PM asking vague questions, and when asked to be more specific, the only reply is no reply at all.
We shall continue Our Observations as time allows; We are an extremely busy Person.
Wondering what it would be like to see you in front of me. To see your face so close to me. To see those eyes that can so easily take me. To feel your touch on my skin. To hear your voice in my ear telling me the things I need to hear from you.. I always knew I was yours, but seeing with my own eyes the way you look at me confirms it even more. I just hope, that if I would ever see you in front of me, that I'd be all you needed..
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BE AWARE: This is part 2!
The whimpering sound he made sounded so close to sobs. I gave another sadistic laugh. “You whimper so lovely. Mmm. Oh, yes. You whimper so lovely in fact, that I’m going to give you a reward. Would you like a reward, Caleb?”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.” Oh. He found his voice again. Good.
“I’m going to count down from 10 to 1 and in that 10 seconds, my voice will caress your cock. Isn’t this a lovely reward?”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.” He sounded relieved.
“You should say thank you, shouldn’t you?”
“Thank you, Miss Sweet. Thank you so much.” The words tumbled out so quickly, I couldn’t help but smile.
“You are very welcome.” I count down from 10 to 8, slowly. Making sure to drag out each number, and leave space in between each one.
“10.” Slow.
“9.” Slow.
“8.” Slow.”
Then I change tactics and speed through 7 to 1 as fast as I can.
“7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. And my voice moving away from your cock.”
The torture in Caleb’s whines is plainly evident, pleasing my sadistic side. I allow to him whimper and whine for what feels like an entire minute, enjoying each and every sound, before finally whispering to myself.
“Was that mean? That might have been mean. Hmm.” I raise my voice to normal Tisty levels. “Was that mean, Caleb?”
“Yes. Yes, Miss Sweet.” Oh, the agony is still there in his voice. Joy!
“Oh. I’m so glad to hear that.”
He whimpers.
“Although, I will say, I thought I was being nice because I allowed you to feel my voice on your cock at all. I mean, I thought I was being nice.”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.”
“So, which is it? Was I being nice or was I being mean?”
“You were being nice, Miss Sweet.”
“Aww. Very good. Mmmm. I’m glad. Thank you.”
“You’re welcome.” His voice still shakes but he manages to add “Thank you, Miss Sweet.”
“You’re welcome, Caleb.”
We are about half an hour in, so I pause session. I unfreeze him but keep him deep under and ask that he drink some water. I always instruct my Calebs to have water nearby so they can drink easily in the session, or even after the session, during aftercare, without them needing to walk away to get some. When he finishes drinking I count him back down, even though he never fully came up.
“Five. Dropping down.”
“Four. Dropping further.”
“Three. Dropping faster.”
“Two. Dropping deeper.”
“One. Deep deep deep. And freeze. Freezing your body comfortably. And you may unfreeze your mouth. How are you feeling, Caleb?”
“Very, very good, Miss Sweet.” His voice sounds like it is completely recovered from earlier. That means I can build it all back up again!
“Thank you. Good boy. Now, I have your thighs to play with. Running my hands down your chest, down your hips, down to your thighs and scraping my nails down your inner thighs. Scraping. Scraping. Scraping back up. Scraping back down. Oh, look! I’m leaving little trail marks. Little nail marks. I am marking you up this session. That’s okay. I don’t mind. I like you wearing my marks.”
I could never get tired of his moans.
“And look at your cock. Still so needy. So needy. I do so enjoy tormenting you, Caleb. You are a delight to torment. All of these sounds you are making and the way you beg me. I’m going move my hands away from your thighs and run them down your chest, over your nipples.” He gave a small gasp.
“First the left. And then the right. And everytime I pass a hand over a nipple, you’ll go a little Blank for me. Blank for me, everytime I pass one of my hands over one of your nipples. Blank for me. Blank for me. Blank for me. Blank. Blank. Blank. Blank. Very good. Caleb. Can you say “Blank” for me?
“Blank.”
“Very good. I’m going to count down from 5 to 1. And after each number, you’ll say ‘Blank’.”
“Five.”
C.“Blank.”
S.“Four.”
C.“Blank.”
S.”Three.”
C.“Blank.”
S.“Two.”
C. “Blank.”
S. “One.”
C.“Blank.”
S. “Yes. Blank. Blank. Blank.”
C. “Blank.”
“There you go. You’ve got it. Your mind going blank. Blank. Blank. Blank. It’s a wonderful feeling isn’t? Going empty. All of your thoughts escaping as you become more and more thoughtless and empty, mindless and blank. Blank, blank, blank.” The last three are said sing-song.
“How are you feeling, Caleb?”
“Blank.” And his voice indeed sounds blank and emotionless. Perfect.
I give a small chuckle. “Very good. And because there’s nothing in your mind, I’m going to fill it up with something. I’m going to tease your cock right now and you’re going to feel your mind fill up with pure need, pure desperation, and pure craving. Those will be the only three things in your mind. In fact, I’m going to tease your cock right now. Moving my hand up and down the air around your cock, so close but not touching. My voice caressing so close to the base. My mouth leaning forward to blow on it.”
“Ah. Ah. Ah.” Those needy sounds. Mmmm. Delicious.
“Letting all of that need, craving, and desperation fill and fill your mind. All of that filling your mind. Filling your mind.”
His moans are getting louder, and more intense “As I continue to tease your cock my voice gets closer and closer and then leaves only to come back. Mmmm. My hand is pulling away and then quickly rushing back, so fast, I’m just about to gra- and stopping just before touching.” The whimpers that last part garnered are beautiful, hot and so sexy.
I start deliberately whimpering as I say this next part, adding them in to enhance his own whimpering and oh, it works perfectly.
“My mouth, so close, why isn’t it touching? You can feel my breath on your cock, why isn’t it touching? Why isn’t touching your cock?” His whimpers are practically non-stop. “Its so close, why Caleb, why isn’t it touching? Oh. Oh. You need it so bad, you need it so bad, don’t you?”
Both of us whimpering, though now he was begging, too. “Please. Please. Oh, I need it, oh so bad, oh so bad. Please, please.”
I’m still whimpering and talking as he begs but, as his last please fades, my voice slides easily back into Tist voice. “Only those three things in your mind. Only those three things in your mind. Tell me, Caleb. Tell me. What are those three things?”
“Need.” There was a slight pause. “Need. Craving. Desperation.” He once again lost his voice to mostly whispers.
“Very good. Say them again.” The second part is an obvious command. No gentleness here.
“Yes. Need. Craving. Desperation.” Whimpering.
“Oh. Good. One more time. Building, building, building.”
“Need.” It sounds as if he is forcing “Craving.” each word out through his teeth. “Desperation.”
I laugh sadistically, but stop when, surprisingly, he says. “More. Please more.”
I’m not expecting it but I am not going to say no. “Oh! If you want to say it more you may. And you’ll feel each feeling building up each time you say them.”
“Need. Craving. Desperation. Need. Craving. Desperation.” I continue to talk to him, under his repeating of these words. Describing all the things he could be feeling. And, as he repeats these three words over and over, “Need. Craving. Desperation.”
I can hear the feelings build and build, all the while I’m continuing to torment him. After he says “Need. Craving. Desperation.” about 10 times those three words become more whine than anything else.
“You need, don’t you? You need. You crave. Mmmm. You’re so desperate.”
He shifts his words, begging. “Need it. Need it. Need it. Miss Sweet. Desperate. I’m so desperate.” His voice is completely a whisper whine, I’m not even sure he knows what he is saying anymore and I decide this is enough.
“Caleb. Caleb.”
“Yes, Miss Sweet?” His voice not quite normal. “Yes, Miss Sweet?”
“Take a deep breath for me.”
He inhales and exhales fairly quickly.
“Very good.” My voice loses all of the sadistic qualities it had just moments ago and becomes soothing, caring. “In just a moment, I’m going to allow you to wrap your hand around your cock and have three, single, strokes. The first one will alleviate desperation. The second one will alleviate craving. And the third one will alleviate need. Do you understand?”
“Yes. Miss Sweet.”
“Good. In fact, you will even say desperation, then craving, then need. Do you understand?”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.”
“And you will be letting each feeling go when you say the name of the feeling. Okay?”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.”
“Good. You may have your three strokes now. Do them slowly.”
There was a moment or two of silence before… “Desperation.” The word sounds half strangled.
“Very good.” My voice is still calm and soothing.
“Craving.” This word is an improvement from the last one. Only cracking at the end.
“Very good.”
“Need.” This word flows smoother.
“Very good. Letting go of your cock now. And letting those three feelings go. Letting them fade. Letting them go. You did so well for me. Good boy, Caleb. Take a deep breath in and a deep breath out. Continue breathing.”
His breaths are audible.
“Releasing you from being frozen, all of your limbs able to once again move freely. Take a few more deep breaths for me. My voice will stop caressing you now, if it hadn’t already.”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.” His voice almost fully back to normal.
“Feeling your body relaxing. Relaxing. Letting any tension from our session go. In just a moment, I’m going to bring you all the way back up but first I want you to relax. Deep breath in. Deep breath out. Relax. Very, very good. Relaxing with each breath in and each breath out. How do you feel?”
“Relaxed.” I ignore the fact he didn’t say Miss Sweet, more focused on bringing him up safely.
“Very good. You’ll let any feelings from this session go, except for relaxation. Okay?”
“Yes, Miss Sweet.” His voice sounds much calmer, none of the desperation lingering, which means I can bring him up.
“I’m going to bring you back up now when I count from 1 to 5. When I reach 5, you’ll be wide awake and relaxed. Fully relaxed but wide awake.” I started counting slowly up.
“One.”
“Two.”
“Three.”
“Four.”
“Almost all the way awake and…”
“Five. Up. Up. Up.”
End of Session.
I hope you all enjoyed!
Ja ne!
~Sweet
* Warnings *
this file will implant triggers into your mind.. This file will also cause you to seek me out for hypnotic and sexual slavery.. Watch this file alone as it has an many happy ending.. You have been warned!!
Sorry posted wrong video.. it is fixed now!!
Best with Stereo headphones..
Sit or lay in a comfy position..
eliminate all distractions..
open your mind to my words..
and enjoy..
let me know what you think of it at the end..
If they are supposed to illicit some sort of hypnotic trigger, suggestion, etc., why is this not mentioned?
What also does not help, is that the majority of these photographs are uncaptioned, again, bringing into question their context.
I miss actual conversations about hypnosis.
It was our first session, and I confess that I was very anxious about the results. She sat across from me, a little uneasy and reluctant. She sat up, placed both hands on her legs as her fingers pinched the long blue dress she wore. Her nervousness was visible, waiting for me while I went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. I'd look at her through the kitchen and see her looking uncomfortably around the environment we'd chosen: a secluded little hotel on the side of the road. After seconds that felt like hours, I took my pendulum, sat in front of her and smiled, falsely confident:
"Is everything okay? Do you want to continue?"
She nodded, squeezing her long dress tighter.
I lifted the pendulum and began to move, slowly, taking momentum and trying to coordinate its movements with my breathing, in order to have a more decided intonation.
"Look at the pendulum, look it in the eye in the middle of it and listen to me. I'm going to take you on a trip, but I need you to want to come with me"
She continued looking at the pendulum, now more attentive and her fingers seemed to open slightly.
"Keep looking at the pendulum, calm your breathing, feel the movement of the pendulum going, going, going, going back.... Calmly, carefully. It's just the two of us, and we don't need anything else."
She was breathing much calmer now, her hands were almost completely open. She seemed calm and going into a trance
"Perfect, take it easy, you need to take a deep breath now, you need the thoughts to come out of the air that will float through your nostrils."
She opened her nostrils, took a deep breath and her hands were fully open. Her shoulders dropped. I looked into her eyes and the focus was direct and unbroken. In a few moments, her eyes rolled automatically and returned to the pendulum, like a piece of metal meeting the magnet.
"Do you hear me? Can you hear me closely?"
She said a deep "yes", an almost automated voice.
"Fine, I need you to stay in the state you are in, but the pendulum will stop swinging. When it stops, your eyes should roll and stay that way. The eyes should be as clear as your mind."
She repeated "clear as my mind" and I slowly stopped the pendulum. I left the pendulum standing in front of her for a few seconds, seeing the focus of the trance. Her mind was disconnected, it was clean and open. I removed the pendulum in front of her and her eyes rolled. I dared to touch her face, she didn't show any reflection, so I touched her chin, opened her jaw slightly and her body obeyed the movement, like a toy. I got up, moved her face slightly to the right, tucked her long black hair behind her ear, brought my hand to the back of her neck and lowered her body slightly. She was ready to be reprogrammed.
Welcome to another round of HypnoChat. I’m your host, Drake. Today we are going over, what to expect with hypnosis. As always this is based on my own opinions and experience. It is worth noting that depending on a number of factors including but not limited to: the hypnotist’s experience, preferences, and mood and the subject’s experience, preferences, and mood, and the setting and goals; some of the steps I discuss may be skipped, merged, or may blend from one step to the next.
The first step in hypnosis is the pretalk. This is where the ground work is set for everything else. The hypnotist starts building rapport with the subject and educating them about hypnosis. The subject will also let the hypnotist know what they are trying accomplish. This is the best time to ask any questions, since if everything goes to plan, this will probably be the only chance before starting to go into a trance. Also, even if the hypnotist doesn’t ask, this would be a good time to make sure they are aware of any medical conditions you may have. Mental illness, heart or lung issues could lead to complications. This is not to say that having them prevents you from getting hypnosis, but a doctor may need to be consulted.
Next up is susceptibility tests. These are a way to gauge how quickly someone will go into a trance. The old school of thought about hypnosis is that there is a certain percent of the population who can’t be hypnotized. I think the number was something like 20% of people, but if you think back to part one of this, I said that hypnosis is just guiding someone into a trance and that trances are something that everyone experiences. So if everyone naturally goes into a trance, it doesn’t really make sense that 20% of people can’t be hypnotized. We will come back to this in a minute.
Now in modern hypnosis, susceptibility tests can still be used, normally for one of two reasons. The main reason is for stage hypnosis. In those settings, it is important to quickly find the people who are going to go into a trance the fastest, so that the show can progress quickly. The other less common use, is they can be used to help someone ease into a trance. These tests start building the subjects confidence in the hypnotist by showing that there is something happening that the subject doesn’t seem to be in full control.
Third up is the induction. This is the part that most people think of as actual hypnosis. This is where the subject is lead into a trance. There are a number of really common ways to do this but they all come down to one goal: get the conscious mind out of the way. We will discuss induction methods more in depth in the future, but one of the older and more commonly known ones is called progressive relaxation. The hypnotist will lead the subject through relaxing their entire body, until eventually they drift off into a trance.
Now lets go back to that 20% who supposedly can’t be hypnotized. If you are someone who is highly analytical, have ADD or ADHD, progressive relaxation is rarely going to work. Progressive relaxation works by getting you to stop thinking but with these types of conditions, people can’t and/or won’t. So with more modern understanding there are other inductions methods like trying to create a PGO spike, confusion, pattern interrupt, or even just conversation. We will break all of those down at a later date.
Next up is the deepener. Once in a trance, depending on a lot of factors, the hypnotist will probably need to get you farther into it. While you are not asleep in a trance, it does work as a good metaphor. So imagine you just got into bed, you start to get comfortable, and then right as you are starting to fall asleep, you hear something in the kitchen. Most people will startle back awake. Some people will fall asleep as soon as their head touches the pillow and will never hear the noise. As for the people who do hear it, especially if you are in a new or unfamiliar environment, you are likely to go check what it was. Now as you get more comfortable and familiar with the environment, the random noise will stop bothering you. You know it’s just the ice maker or the house settling. The same idea happens in hypnosis. The first time you are hypnotized, you are likely to be in a very light trance that distractions can easily break you out of. Some people will naturally fall deeper than others but the more you are hypnotized, the faster and deeper you will go.
Now we get to the heart of hypnosis, the change work. This is where the hypnotist will take that information from the pretalk and start putting it into action. They guide the subject to new information, form new habits, break old ones, or what ever steps are needed to accomplish the subject’s goals. Depending on the goal or goals, all of the changes may be able to be done in one session or they may need to be done in multiple.
So at this point, it is important to note that human memory is awful. Your brain lies to you constantly and so completely that most people never notice. For example, your vision only has a couple square inches of high resolution quality that you can see at any given time. Your eyes scan the area quickly moving this focus point around to get more details but to hide this, your brain fills in extra details about the world around you so that you think you are seeing everything in high definition. Your brain also edits the information that you receive tuning out things it deems unimportant, like your nose. You can always see your nose but until you focus on it, your brain filters it out. This is important because if you can’t trust what you are really seeing in the moment, how can you be trusted to remember something accurately? The answer is that you can’t. Your brain does not like to admit it doesn’t know or remember something, so it can and will make up details or memories.
This is important because with hypnosis your mind is open to suggestion. Creating or modifying memories is so easy that it can be done by accident. The most common scenario for this with hypnosis is time loss. Once the subject is in trance at least 30 minutes, the chance of time loss starts to increase. This can become so complete that the subject does not remember anything that happened while in trance at all. This is the same way that while listening to music, reading a good book or watching an enthralling movie, you can lose time. The hypnotist can also use this to their advantage. First if the subject suddenly realizes they lost time, it proves to them that the hypnotist did something. The other advantage is that this ability to create or modify memories can be used for entertainment. This is the basis for hypnosis shows.
Now we move on to awakening. The hypnotist will then guide the subject to come back to a normal state. There is no chance of a subject getting stuck in a trance. A trance is a in-between state. Without the hypnotist maintaining it, the person will either naturally wake up or fall asleep. That being said, if the hypnotist doesn’t guide the person to wake, it can lead to some confusion, headache, and disorientation. It is as if you were suddenly startled awake.
Finally we come to post care or post talk. It is common for people to still be more suggestable for 5 or 10 minutes after coming out of a trance. To that end, it is common to just sit and talk for a few minutes after the trance ends to make sure that nothing extra gets unexpectedly changed. I heard a story where after a long session to help someone make a lot of changes, they were feeling really great about them. The subject ran out to say how great they felt to their ride. Their ride said that they didn’t seem different and asked if they were sure it actually worked. In this more suggestable state, it undid the work that had been done. In a lot of cases this post talk won’t even be about the hypnosis itself, just small talk to pass time.
That gives a basic overview of hypnosis and what to expect from it. Next time, we will start diving into more specifics on different parts.
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Welcome back, glad to see those of you back again and all the new faces. Lets talk about how effective hypnosis can be. As a reminder this is all based on my opinions and experiences. How effective hypnosis is has to do with a few factors, but the biggest is the person being hypnotized. This in no way means that if hypnosis didn’t work for someone that they are a bad subject. As Mike Mandel says, there are no bad subjects or if there are, they go somewhere else. So how can the person being hypnotized be the biggest factor and issues with the trance not mean that they are a bad subject both be true? Well other factors still come into play like the skill of the hypnotist, level of trust between the two, and if the subject is actually ready to make the change.
The reason that the subject is still the biggest factor is that even when working with a hypnotist, the subject is still in control of the the trance. The hypnotist is a guide who leads the subject into a trance and to their goals. This means the more the person wants to change, the greater the change will be. Going into trance is also a skill, so the more you practice it, the easier it is to do. One caveat is that, as with most things trying too hard can make things more difficult than it needs to be.
The hypnotist’s skill is important. While they are a guide, the more skilled they are at navigating the subconscious and adjusting their method to better match the subject, the better the effect. The way the changes are phrased can make a big difference in how the subject internalizes the changes. Trust and rapport also builds into this. This leads to an interesting effect that the more you believe the hypnotist can do, the more they actually can. Then the more they do, the more you believe that they can do. This self feeding cycle can lead to very powerful effects.
With all of that out of the way, how effective hypnosis is also depends on what change is trying to be made. Since hypnosis is an effect of the mind and the mind controls our perception of the world, the best changes are mental or perception based. Hypnosis is not going to make you drop 20 pounds over night, but it can help you build the habits to get you there. It can adjust your sensation of pain to help relieve it without the need for pain killers, but it will not fix the cause so care still needs to be taken not to make it worse.
The short version is that the human mind is complicated. How well a given change will work depends. If you take a deep breath, relax, and go with the flow while working with someone skilled that you trust greatly it will lead to great results. Practice makes perfect and trying new things lets you find your preferences. The best way to do hypnosis, is the way that works for you.
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Sometimes you can find yourself paying attention to the most interesting things. They may start off interesting, or they may start off dull and become interesting later. Sometimes you start off interested, then lose interest, other times your interest may be distracted and the interest you invested at first, gives off very poor interest later when it becomes less interesting. Whether or not your interest was high, it would be interesting to see how your interest increased or decreased with the rate of interest in what you're reading right now.
This is why it's interesting to consider being careful what you pay attention to, since there tends to be a definitive beginning and a definite end to what can be interesting, but what happens in between is just as relevant to the end as it was at the beginning. Because it's really important to pay attention, so as to make sense of what you are reading, isn't it?
Sometimes it is hard to sort through what makes sense and what doesn't, and where sense starts to make itself and not the other way around, and it can be easier to start the process by finding the beginning and then focus on that. Immediately you can become fully aware where you have come from and where you are going, and the thinking that is contained in finding this point points to the need to get to the point of no return before you can find the end.
You can continue right on thinking consciously while unconsciously letting things fall into place however they need to, to get to the place where you can place your trust in knowing your place in the greater scheme of things.
I wonder if you realise that your attention is now focused on trying to find the sense in what you're reading because if you are aware of this, you are ready to move from the beginning of this induction into the body of it, which will affect how your attention is paid. Will you pay attention now or will you focus later, that is the question, even though sooner or later you'll find that you can begin to wonder about what happens once the beginning has come to an end and the body has overtaken the mind.
When you ask yourself the question of whether or not the induction is embodied in the beginning or the end of the body, your definition of what has been begun and what is being ended is irrelevant to the context. And you can experience reading this as if you are unravelling a great mystery ,and clearly notice how clear the context has become as it is clarified.
Suppose I asked you to remember how this all got started; would you be able to focus your awareness on how your shoulders drop while you try to recall where we begun?
And having done so, you could find yourself wondering where this is leading you, but you would not need to concern yourself with beginnings or endings when I know you're wondering how you'll experience trance soon. For that to occur you would have to realise how soon you can feel that you're breathing comfortably and how your focus is greater now than it was before you began to look for the ending so you could sink into trance.
You see, the beginning and the end only affect each other insofar as their respective contexts affect the definition of what's begun and what has ended. The endpoint that the beginning points to, is the induction of trance which begins as soon as the ending is reached, because this is the way the message is absorbed at the unconscious level, and now you're at the point where your attention can focus on drifting into a peaceful state.
If you can allow yourself to flow with the words then you will notice how calm you feel, which means that you're well on the way to absorbing my suggestions to drift deeper into trance because the end has reached the beginning and the beginning has ended.
And having read this far, you could notice how your awareness is growing fuzzy and you're starting to feel more and more comfortable, as your mind lets go of thoughts of beginnings and endings and realises there is only the here and the now. Right here and right now you might find your inner mind takes you on a journey, going deeper and deeper into hypnosis as you continue to read and sink and slow. Dropping deeper now and feeling wonderful as your mind slides down so gracefully into trance.
And now that you are reading this from within trance, you can know that just as you are able to go easily into this state of focus, so you are easily able to handle things that come your way and solve problems that need to be solved. And you can allow your subconscious mind to do the learning that is needed to cope effectively with situations that you face. You know this deeply because of how deeply you have responded to these words.
You can allow yourself to drift softly in this wonderful state a moment longer, enjoying a feeling of peace and calm. And now you can prepare to return to your normal state of awareness, drifting up slowly and gently, feeling wonderful as you return on the count of 5
1 ...
begining to stir
2 ...
more and more aware
3 ...
more alert, feeling so good
4 ...
feeling energised and refreshed
5 ...
wide awake, all the way up
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Welcome back
Either like it or don't it's your choice
Either way, you take it don't let it sallow you.
Either hate or like.
Either way, you point the gun a bullet fires straight.
Those who feeling down
It's okay not too late
Either keep going or give up.
But spiral downwards
Cause it's not too late.
Trust or don't
One way for sure we all live together in this world.
Positive and negative
Both keep a car running
Both keep the heart beating.
Don't spiral towards
Do spiral upwards
In the end, we all end happy one way or another.
I am a Gemini. I don’t really put much stock into astrology, but I do know that I am and have been of two minds my whole life. At my core, I am indecisive. Sometimes it feels like there are two distinct people living inside of me, but when I try to examine them their lines become indistinct and watery. While one drives, the other heckles. Always a backseat thinker. Always my worst critic.
Inner conflict drives people to meditate. It’s what drew me to hypnosis, I think. When I trance, every part of me feels a comfort that is unhindered by worry or self-loathing. I am totally free of myself, no longer watching my life from behind my eyes but living in a moment of total, ignorant freedom.
But that doesn’t last.
I get to wishing I were a stronger person. I feel weak for wanting an escape, but I enjoy indulging fantasies wherein I give up control. Am I so weak-willed that I can’t live my own life? Are my submissive impulses really rooted in low self-esteem? Could I see myself living out these fantasies in my 30s? 40s? (Who’s gonna want me when I’m not pretty)
You can always have fantasies I guess.
I am married. I love my wife. She thinks I’m pretty. I think she’s pretty too. We take care of each other. Sometimes, I think we enable each other, but we’re trying not to. We are both anxious people. We are private and we probably won’t make it to the thing at Greg’s house later. We don’t get out much.
My wife has hormonal imbalances. They make her gain weight and they kill her sex drive. I'm not lying when I tell her she is still very pretty to me. We’ve been exercising more and smoking less, which has helped. Occasionally the sex is very good. She doesn’t like to have the lights on though. We both aren’t great at breaking the silence, so no one talks. We grope in the dark under the covers and if I’m lucky I get to go down on her which is my favorite.
I feel like I would be a better husband if I were more assertive. More outgoing. More decisive. Truth be told, at my core I really love to follow. Maybe I belong on a leash.