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Hypnosis Negotiation from sweettist's blog

Hypnosis Negotiation

 So when I am negotiating hypnosis play, I ask for four individual lists. And I ask for each list to be labeled, and each item on that list to be its own line. So I am able to easily locate each list in my notes while they are in trance. These four lists are…


Hard Limits:

Limit 1.

Limit 2.

Etc.

(Things you absolutely will not do, even if someone offered you $100.)


Landmines:

Landmine 1.

Landmine 2.

Etc.

(Things you know you don’t respond well to that the hypnotist should be aware of. Such as, if you are afraid of heights. “Saying falling.” may be a landmine. Or if someone has a common trigger in you you don’t want duplicated by someone else. Or anything else that the hypnotist may stumble upon accidentally which you know you won’t respond well to. I hate being called Sweetie. Out of trance its an annoyance, in trance its made me cry. So, “calling me Sweetie” is one of my landmines.)


Safewords:

Safeword to Pause and discuss.

Safeword to Stop all play and Start aftercare.

Safeword to Start play or Convey something is good for you.

(I work with a lot of people across the world. The Stoplight system seems to be pretty universal. Yellow = Pause, Red = Stop, and Green = Go.

You may chose other words. If you want to pick other words, chose words that make you feel safe, come to you automatically and that you are unlikely to say during a session.)


Hypnotic/BDSM Interests:

Interest 1.

Interest 2.

Etc.

(Things they like experiencing under trance. I will ask them to delete anything I’m not okay with doing. I also ask them a few of the things I am really into. If they are interested in those, too, I’ll ask for those interests to be added to the list.

Then we have a set pre-negotiated list I can pull from anytime I am working with them. If I’m doing a session in which one aspect isn’t working for either of us, I can easily let it go, look on their Hypnotic Interests list and snag something from there.)


I ask them to let me know if there are any changes to the list, and I update the lists accordingly.


This is proper negotiation. Organized so the Hypnotist can easily look it up when they need it, even if the subject is deep in trance. 


If you think this is good information, please share this. The more people who know how to properly negotiate, the better it is for the community.

PS: You may also want to negotiate Aftercare. Aftercare is usually discussed between me and my subjects and I rarely write it down.


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HypnoLilly805
Dec 24 '18
Wow extremely helpful way to convey information. Never looked at I way, I like it.
sweettist
Dec 24 '18
Thank you!
HypnoLilly805
Dec 24 '18
Do you mind if I use this?
sweettist
Dec 24 '18
Please do!
crossmagus
Dec 27 '18
Thank you for this. I will try it out a few times and hopefully provide some useful feedback for you - already I appreciate the visual formatting to make it easier to review in session.
stang
Jan 20 '19
This is a great idea, thanks for sharing
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Added Dec 16 '18

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